Stay Kind No Matter What

Stay Kind No Matter What Life’s navigation is infallible. Point. We are the only ones who make mistakes. When life guides you with its infallible navigation, and you are aware of it, you stop doubting that you are on the right path. Even when it becomes extremely difficult. Believing in life at all costs means at the same time that you will remain good – permanently, consistently and relentlessly. It would be nice if we were able to realize that earlier, but oh well… How many misconceptions, how many stumbles, wrong beliefs, and especially how much time passes, before you just smile and say – “How did I not see that before!?” But that’s also luck, some people live their whole lives and don’t come to this liberating realization… 

Stay Kind No Matter What

Everyhting Is Easier Than Believing

We tend to think that life is difficult for us, that people are bad, that others are to blame, that we owe something and are responsible. We’re able to repeat tirelessly that the world is full of evil and that it’s going to hell. We are able to do everything tirelessly, except to believe. We lack individual faith, global faith, and we, thinking that it’s insufficient, doom it in advance. Condemning the thing that would have built such strong foundations of goodness and power for us, that no one and nothing could collapse them. If we skillfully built these foundations of faith and kindness every day, little by little, and if we did not inconsistently raise our hands and almost give up in advance, the world would never be the same. One good, consistent, believing and persistent person is enough. To start. But here are so few who start, why?

Stay Kind No Matter What

Why Should Only I Be Good

“Why should I be good, look at them!” “What’s the point of goodness, look what this world?!” “It’s not worth it to be good!” “I’ve been good enough, from now on I’ll be like the others!” “I’m tired of kindness!” “Ah, good and a fool…”… And so, confusion arises, trading with oneself and others, a battle of egos that has no winner, except for the illusion that you defeated someone or that he defeated you. And the water of life becomes so cloudy that it’s increasingly difficult to calm it, so we could see ourselves better on its surface and when our distorted face would appear to us, we would sober up. Only when you see yourself like that, there is hope that you will want to come back. Why? Goodness that has no price and no alternative.

Stay Kind No Matter What

Don’t Resist Life

When resistance to life ends, then the true life begins. Most stumbling blocks in our lives come from resistance to what is happening to us. Instead of being our perfect guideposts, they are stumbling blocks for us. We are doing everything wrong.

We fight internal wars, which are reflected in the world around us, and then we also fight those wars, and then the world is just full of wars. All because of the resistance to life and the lack of desire for those internal wars from which everything starts to die down, rather than to flare up. The desire to be great, powerful, victorious, happy, to prove oneself, to take revenge, to subdue, to humiliate, so that the restlessness would calm down and you would be satisfied… And you will never be satisfied, because that’s not the way to do it. Only extinguishing resistance to life and learning from it can bring peace. As well as the desire to remain good at all costs. Even when you get tired…

Stay Kind No Matter What

Everything Starts With Us

Chasing happiness at any cost, we become more and more unhappy. As if it has become difficult for us to finish what we started, to persevere or to put an end to what has long been over. We make excuses, because it’s easier that way. Striving for shortcuts in order to hit the goal, more and more we often underestimate effort and work.

We have trouble realizing that we have to move on and trust life, even when we don’t like what we’re being served. We offer great resistance to everything, except ourselves and our delusions. The longer we embrace and cherish them, the more difficult it is to get out of the vicious circle. Because in it, we become increasingly bad people, miles away from a good person. Then in the general madness of mistaken belief we try to help ourselves by thinking that the key is where it never was. Resentment, accusations, proving, unforgiveness, gossip, plots, attacks, force…

Stay Kind No Matter What

It’s Not Easy To Be Kind

Where the key is – that’s where it isn’t easy. That’s the place where it’s always a little harder to unlock the door, and that’s where life coaches and their advice on how to achieve inevitable happiness and joy doesn’t help. It’s not to be found anywhere beyond us and our goodness that illuminates our path, unfailingly giving us the opportunity to try and find ourselves. Then you are able to discover the only truth, which is that only pure kindness, faith and love can be our direction. Our personal and global direction with which we’ll save ourselves daily and tirelessly.

Staying good at all costs is perhaps the most difficult path. Only hardened ruffians and unlucky people think that it’s rocky, funny and naive, and that it leads nowhere… And there are so many examples where they can be convinced the opposite. They don’t see them, their resistance to life is not letting them. They are convulsing, because tomorrow they have to start a new war… It’s also necessary to have an excuse tomorrow – why you’re not a good man. At least that’s easy…

Also read my text https://single-moms-way.com/you-have-to-think-about-yourself-too/

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