Family… We all dream of a fairytale married life and love for all time and the rest of our lives. Unfortunately, only a few lucky people have the honor to experience that. On the other hand, many live in unhappy marriages, as well as those who experience marital shipwreck. Just as we are all different, so are our choices, connections with other people, and marriages. Divorce Is Good For Several Reasons
When you look at the statistics, no matter what we think about, it is clear that it’s not in our favor. But it’s still better to find the real reasons for divorce (i.e. to recognize them and admit them to yourself) than to look for false reasons to stay in a bad marriage.
Divorce Is Good For Several Reasons
What Are The Good Reasons For Divorce?
Your Children Will Be Happier
When I hear that someone got married because of children they had together, I get chills. Why? There are several reasons. The first is that it’s a pure lie. Because no one’s happy in an unhappy marriage, not even children. Second, why would anyone use children as an excuse for their helplessness? That’s not right. It’s true that only with a happy parent can children be happy.
And in that case, the other parent is no longer important to you at all, because you are aware that you are now solely responsible. Both for their actions and their behavior. Of course, no child wants their parents to be separated, but quality time together, stability and peace will mean so much to children in the time that they will understand the essence. This is the most important thing. If parents are happy and dedicated and do everything for their children, the children will be happy.
You Will Be Healthier
An unhappy and conflicting marriage and such marriages usually lead to divorce, impairs our health. And we very often don’t notice it. Some research has shown that a bad marital environment can cause damage in our body, such as that caused by alcohol and chronic stress. The risk of heart disease, cancer, arthritis, diabetes, and, of course, weakens our immune system. Even small wounds on our body heal up to 40% slower.
You Can Meet A Person Who Will Love You And Who You Will Love
When you are aware that you have done everything to save the marriage and that there is nothing left to do, then you need to put an end to the marriage. Because it’s pointless to stay in a dead marriage. Ask yourself what’s the point… And on the other hand, think about how wonderful it is to love and be loved. No one should be deprived of the experience of love. Even one who has stopped believing in her, or thinks he couldn’t start with some love from scratch.
Personal Growth And Development
If you have spent a long period in an unhappy marriage, it can very often mean that you have given up some of your ambitions, desires, and even dreams. Also, sometimes it’s only when you move on and leave a bad marriage behind that you realize how much you have neglected yourself and your personality. Sometimes it happens that we lose ourselves along the way without even being aware of it.
And then at some point when you come back to it, you realize that you want so much more, you can and you will. Isn’t that a wonderful feeling? We must not allow anyone to steal from us what is most valuable to us, and that is us. He who truly loves us would never do such a thing.
I will only add that many experts emphasize that a bad marriage often prevents us from doing the things we love. And then when we focus our energy on what makes us happy, (instead of “Sisyphus’ job” of saving something that no longer exists) there are no boundaries…
And That’s How We Achieve Happiness…
No matter how it seemed to you before the divorce, in the trouble during the divorce, as well as immediately after, that you will never be happy again, that’s not true. On the contrary, after some time and recovery, which will inevitably arrive, you will not be able to recognize yourself.
It’s true that before that, you have to make a difficult decision, get a divorce (go through a divorce, especially if you have children), get over and get over everything that made you sick… But after the shock and storm, there’s a calm sea in which you will sail not believing that you managed it all. And you will feel happiness and peace again.
Trust me you will. And to such an extent that when you think of your courage, determination, strength, and result, you will be in disbelief that you have succeeded. And you want that too, only if you are strong enough, and for that strength and power, you need faith. First of all in yourself.
And The Truth Is That Many Women Prosper After Divorce…
You don’t have to be a handsome model either on a diet or lose 20 lbs to notice a change in you after a divorce. And trust me to speak to you again from experience. At times you will feel bursts of positive feelings and emotions. And it’s clear to us that it’s this positive energy that fixes things in us and on us. What happens inside can be seen from the outside, it’s an unwritten rule.
And the feeling of happiness and satisfaction due to overcoming a huge life challenge is a reason to shine and shine. And to look in line with that – fresh, reborn, happy, and different. It’s that feeling of comfort in one’s skin that cannot be described in words.
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