I’m just another single mother. There are two of them and I call them my kittens. The older kitten is 17 and the younger one is 7 years old.
A few years ago, we went through an extremely difficult journey and learned many lessons. Some were simple, but most were extremely difficult. As difficult as it was for me and as tired as I was, I tried not to let it get to them.
Today, when I look behind us, I realize that it was not easy, but it was definitely worth it. We are still learning today, paving our way, but the lessons are now much easier and the material to learn less complex. Finally, it’s easier to breathe. For them and for me.
I remember those moments where I thought I couldn’t take it one step further, and the burden was too heavy… I thought I was completely “alone” and over time I realized that we were all alone and not alone at the same time, it was just a matter of perception. When I realized that where I was now, was the result of what I was doing and working on, I was very disappointed… But the disappointment didn’t last long.
And then, over time, I figured that there were so many blessings around me. I also realized that those few people around me were totally enough to make me the happiest one alive. The most important thing was to accept what you currently have, to be grateful for it and to move on… Of course, if you want more and better.
One of the key sentences I read, sent a very important message. If you want a change in your life, if you want more, and if you expect it, you have to do something about it. What? Change something today if you want your life to be different tomorrow! I did it too!
Today, I have a sense of kinship with my path. I no longer feel that my path is tight or a “few numbers bigger” than it used to be. Again life becomes an adventure, with a personal stamp which is priceless.
I want this blog to help you, the one who is thinking that you are “alone”, that it’s the end of the world, that your life will never be in your hands again, that you don’t have the strength, the faith, the confidence… It doesn’t matter (trust me) whether it’s your choice to be alone or its imposed on you…
It’s great if you have the opportunity to learn not only from your own but also from others’ experiences. To make it easier for you, to breathe deeply again, to laugh again and to know that there is a whole world within you – that is priceless. It is important to believe that you are much more than you think you are!
If this blog helps you a little in your journey and makes things easier for you, it would be our great fortune …